Recently there was this fun message circulating on Facebook
It was only for girls, women … the message read -
to post a unified, codified, but crazy message as our status.
It was for a good cause … to make people to stop and think,
and to really make people aware about the cause.
The status had nothing directly to do with the actual cause
or the actual issue, the problem at hand.
I obliged, mainly for the fun of it.
And my status read
“I am going to Dominican Republic for 21 months”
[The country indicating the [hijree 2012
] month of by birth
the number of months indicating the date of my birth -
just secret coding to … keep people guessing!]
The serious looking comments I got for the status was crazy.
Some congratulating me for my globetrotting, for my PhD,
for how lucky I am, etc etc. I felt bad … leading them on …
So I had to reply to all my friends who commented
and many of my other friends (just in case they were misled),
telling them about my crazy status … about the cause …
telling them about the awareness issue.
The problem or the issue was that of cancer.
The purpose of those statuses was to make people pause
and to think about cancer, to at least understand
that a huge proportion of world’s population battles with cancer.
Cancer in many forms. So you see, the scam worked.
I was telling many of my friends.
And they in turn might have done the same.
And on Monday, yesterday, I got this message
in my official e-mail inbox. I did not open it as the subject read
“a small request by Monday” and it came from a general reading source -
it was not important work-wise I knew, so I did not open it -
especially it being a hectic day.
Now I open it … and I just had to post it here.
Also especially because I am having a painful lump on my skull
and only last night I was told by my sister nurse
that it might very well be a sign …
that I should take it seriously and go and see the doctor.
I had no idea … but I did some googling late last night
and now I have a fear.
Going to the doctor I will … and I hope it’s just a silly bump.
But having thought about it … after that discussion
and then seeing this e-mail -
I think it’s only fitting that I do my share of passing
So here it is. A day past Monday … and yet passing on the candle.
===============the e-mail message begins here:==============
Dear All,
Monday is world cancer day…
93% won’t forward
A small request and it’s just one line.

Dear God, I pray for a cure for cancer. Amen

All you are asked to do is keep this circulating, even if it’s
only to one more person. In memory of anyone you know
who has been struck by cancer or is still living with it.
A Candle Loses Nothing by Lighting Another Candle.
Please Keep This Candle Going… I’d appreciate it if you will forward this request.
=====================End of message=====================
I second this. Will forward the candle
that’s sweet arzvi
thanks
WoW! I got a different one on Facebook. Definitely a worthy cause.
it sure is. there are so many causes that we need to support.
but sometimes some FB causes are created just for the heck of it.
I liked the cancer awareness approach… it takes out the berevity of the issue
and make it a joyable share. a double edged sward i would like to say
thanks
Amira,
I had a similar situation on FB. I went along with it and posted that I was going to Germany for 26 months. My brother wrote..WHAT? Others wished me well. Even others asked if everything was OK because it was such a long time period. It carried over to my church friends. I was getting asked everywhere about it. It got crazy.
I did the same thing you did. I wrote to everyone. I felt horrible, and said so in my notes to them. But I felt the same way you do….at least I was passing the awareness of cancer to women and men. In my notes I said…why do we only single out women in those silly requests? Men get cancer too, and should be part of the “game” if they so choose. But I digress…
The candle is a lovely idea…..and so appropriate…to bring light and awareness to the world about a devastating disease.
Please don’t worry. Many lumps are cysts/benign…but good to have it checked out. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. ❤
ah August
should keep that in mind
thanks Judy. for sharing your side of it.
I was feeling so stupid after puttin that on the status
and after seeing friends’ comments.
and when people found out what the status really meant …
they were saying how in the would could we ever think you of all the people would
post something that’s not true !!!??? I felt awful
and abt that bump or lump
i think it’s just nothing serious. will see the doc soon.
thanks for all the reassuarance and the prayers
Let me skip the Face Book or “Passing on candles” part and simply offer you a warm, long hug. As judy said in most cases they are only benign. So leave the worries away for a while and have it checked out sometime.
Meanwhile, I came to tell you that you have been thought of dear. Thank you for being the wonderful blogger friend that you are.
Stay smiling.
Much love
thanks for the hug silentfingers
it is a bit worrying even if I pretend not to
But what is to happen will happen and what is not to happen will not happen.
And with that, I feel cheerful and positive.
And with such lovely people like you and others all around me,
there is nothing that can go wrong and nothing that cannot be undone
will see how it goes
My dear Amira! This post brought me painful memories and fear. I pray and hope it’s not what it is. Please, do check it out as early as possible to be sure if ‘it’s just a silly bump’ or not. I’ll definitely forward the candle to create awareness and pray for you and me, and to all the others, who lives in fear, continues to fight the battle or lost someone they loved. Lots of love and hugs
(I didn’t realise I wasn’t log in when writing the comment. Good that I’d to come back again to give you a hug and to like the post. Keep smiling and remember the love all around you.)
oh flora!!! don’t tell me you went through cancer !!!
I cannot even start to imagine me or any of my friends or family having to battle with that. I’ve only seen it in movies and read on it a bit. but never really experienced it around me …
thanks for the encouragement. I sure will check it out soon. work is just too hectic and hospitals are just too full…. will attend to it this weekend hopefully
abt the other anon comment. I’ve trashed it … as it was a repetition

thanks for coming back with the like and also the hug and the extra note
I like the LIKE gravators down my post. such colourful and it tells a story in itself
What a Post to write :’( great work Amira. I like the humanity in you, and JazakALLAH for spreading the awareness, and May ALLAH keep you safe from all kind of diseases and this world from Cancer too
Ameen
what a beautiful prayer Farhan

thank you in a million words
aap jaisee har koiee ho, yey dhu’aa hudhaa sey hum karey …
I deactivated my FB account almost two or three years ago, so I have passed the FB part and only read the mail fwding one!
Amen to the cancer prayer!
Cool post!
thank you, cool KID
I’m also sort of “deactivated” from FB… still do hang on as it’s part of life now..
but the craze of it is over
thanks for the prayer for the cause